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The Truth About How To Get A Girlfriend

Posted on 10. Aug, 2009 by Conrad Dixon in Seduction

So you don’t have a girlfriend.

Let me ask you a question… why do you want a girlfriend?

That’s right… WHY?

Well, let me answer the question for you. As a man, the reason why you want a girlfriend is because you want SEX!

That’s right, I don’t care what you say, I don’t care what you think… SEX is practically the only real reason WHY you want a girlfriend. Secondarily yes, you may want a girlfriend for fun, excitment & meaning in life… but primarily the sole reason WHY you want a girlfriend is to have SEX.

Now… let me ask you another question, WHY is it that you don’t have a girlfriend?

Well, let me answer this question for you also. The BIGGEST reason why you DON’T have a girlfriend is because you’re NOT getting SEX. Yup, that’s what I said… you’re not getting laid, and that’s why you don’t have a girlfriend.

What I mean by this is that when a guy is NOT getting sex, he is prone to becoming sexually frustrated, needy, nervous, socially unconfident and generally thinking that he’s not “worthy” of sex or a girlfriend. As you can imagine, this frame of thinking does NOT allow you to obtain a girlfriend. Period.

Now on the other hand, imagine if you’re getting a lot of casual sex with women on a weekly basis, AND you have a lot of sexual experience. A guy who is getting laid has social confidence, sexual non-neediness, no amount of “frustration” and definately thinks hes “sexually worthy”. Now from this frame of thinking, such a guy will have practically NO trouble getting himself into a long-term relationship.

The Dating Paradox

What I’m doing is pointing out a PARADOX… and that paradox is:

You want a girlfriend BECAUSE you want SEX, but you don’t have a girlfriend BECAUSE you’re NOT GETTING SEX!

Ok, so how do you use this “paradox” to your advantage?

Well let me tell you know, the EASIEST way for you to gain an ABUNDANCE of girlfriends is to learn how to get a lot of CASUAL SEX. To put this another way, the easiest way get a girlfriend is to NOT WANT A GIRLFRIEND… but instead, you should look to do provide casual sex with the women you meet. By providing women with casual sex, getting a girlfriend will become an AFTER THOUGHT.

Now you may be asking… “But how do I get casual sex if I can’t get a girlfriend!?!”

The answer is, once you learn that women are sexual beings and that they WANT sex… providing them with nothing but SEX and NOT relationships becomes an EASY feat.

Let me tell you something…

It is EASIER to have SEX with a girl than it is to get her as a GIRLFRIEND!

That’s right… you’ve probably NEVER heard this before, and you probably WON’T believe this… but it’s TRUE! Another way to think about it is that you should GET sex by going out and GETTING it… you shouldn’t look to GET sex by getting a GIRLFRIEND.

The reason WHY you should get a girlfriend is for the relationship… but that would only be IF the girl is of the personality & looks that you’ve been looking for.

How To Gain Casual Sex

So, to clarify once again, the way to get a girlfriend is to come from the mentality of SEXUAL ABUNDANCE. And in order to gain this sexual abundance, you need to gain casual sex. So the question is, HOW do you get casual sex?

Well in order to gain casual sex, you must first learn to provide women with sex, and NOT provide women with a relationship or “traditional courtship”.

The thing is, before I learned dating science and the art of  seduction, I used to think that the process of getting sex was as follows:

Meet girl -> Get phone number -> Call her several times -> Set up a date -> Go on a date -> Get to know her -> Go on a second date -> Get to know her even MORE ->  Go on a third date -> Get to know her even FURTHER -> Meet at her place or mine -> Have sex

The above is what you could call the “traditional courtship” model.

What I’ve learnt is that I can get sex through the following formula:

Meet girl ->  Show her I’m a sex worthy guy -> Get phone number -> Call her up and say “I’ll come over for coffee” -> Go to her place -> Let it lead to sex

Understand that if you PRESENT yourself to women as being able to “provide” her with SEX, she will be willing to meet up with you ONLY for sex.

In further articles to come, I will show you HOW to become a sex worthy guy and make sex a “normal” part of life so that getting a girlfriend will NEVER be a problem.